Nitty~Gritty

random thoughts about my life

Cute hubby and I had a fight yesterday. I was feeling exhausted and overwhelmed with everything... (messy house, spirited toddler, in-laws coming soon) I had a migraine when I picked him up from work where at that time I informed him he was in charge because I'm going to bed. This didn't sit so well with him. For some reason when I don't feel well he thinks I'm mad at him. This confuses me everytime. As you can imagine the dialogue went something like this..."no, I'm not mad at you. What's really wrong? I have a headache due to a long day and I'm going to bed. Are you mad at me?" Of course going on like this made me quite angry. Miscommunication lead me to more exhaustion. I have this problem with needing to finish every project I start before bed so I won't have to do it tomorrow. I don't know why I can't just let it go and leave it for tomorrow. I just work myself into a mess when there's no need because it really gets me nowhere. It's like when you're getting so pissed at the slow driver in front of you who's enjoying their drive obviously because they're in no hurry like you. Your anger makes you pass them and you think, finally, now I'm going somewhere. But then, you stop at the light and they pull up next to you. We both ended up at the light except they're still in a good mood enjoying their day.

posted by: hookemup at 15:23 | link | comments (2) |

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#1  18 December 2003 - 15:25

 

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#2  19 December 2003 - 07:00

 

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